Weakness is said to be lack of strength or determination, it
is lack of will or power to reach a goal, achieve something or get better with
life. Weaknesses are character flaws, unfavorable part of someone’s character
that can keep you from your goals and achievement if you fail to handle or
control them. They are weak points that can easily suck you out of your will power;
they can damage the good works being done by the best of your character when not
controlled.
Weaknesses are flaws that are easily frowned at by people,
bosses and corporations because they are seen as things that could endanger
productivity. But, looking at weaknesses from the positive side, it can turn
out to the something you need to even turn things around for good if you know
how to manipulate your weaknesses to become strength. This is achievable when
your weaknesses are protected from being opened and not making you a victim
always so that people will not be able to use them against you.
So, how can you turn your weakness to strength?
First,
Know your weakness
It is the thing you know that you will be able to control or
handled. Being truthful with yourself about your weakness will help you to
understand how to handle it. Do not run away from responsibilities that arise
from your weak points, do not shy away or feel awkward when people point out
those weak areas of your characters rather embrace it and in doing so, you will
be able to understand what it takes to control it.
Appreciate your
weaknesses
There is no human being on earth who does not have a
character flaw; the way it is being handled is what defines us. Everyone does
have a cross or two to carry but what makes us look better before others is how
we manage to carry our own. Those weaknesses of yours might be someone's strength
so appreciate it and the more you work on them, the more you will be able to
get better on them. When you appreciate the fact that those weaknesses are
there, it will no longer serve as a problem but as a check and balance on your
character. They are not there to mar you but to make you stay on check so that
you will not go around feeling like a superhuman that has no flaw.
Know that your
weakness makes you human
You are human and not angel, your weakness is a proof that
you are a mortal being and not immortal. Therefore, instead of being scared of
those weaknesses, turn them around into something positive and make something
great out of them. Let say you love to talk and you are such a talkative that
cannot just stop talking and people know you for this, instead of just going
around doing useless talks, turn yourself into an orator or inspirational
speaker. In that way, you have been able to turn your weakness to passion and
strength. Another example, if you are the type that loves to play video games,
you can go ahead and learn programming, 3D and animation and then become a game
developer.
Work on it
Do not just admit that those weaknesses are there; be able
to know what to do to help yourself to make them better flaws. Be sure to work
on it every day and give yourself credit each day you get better on them. List those weaknesses out and and and write out methods you would use in working on them and then pick them one after the other and knock them off gradually.
Looking at your weakness from the positive side rather than
being negative about them will also help you to easily turn them into strength and
make them the better side of your character rather than allowing them to stay
as flaws and overshadow your unique strength. Your weaknesses are not things to
be frowned at but to be embraced and worked on.
Have you worked on a weakness recently and you
have been able to turn it around for your good? Share your story with us under
comment. Thanks.
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